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So Today we come to the sixth law of scouting:  A scout is kind. 


 


The first entry in the manual reads:


 


"He is a friend to animals.  He will not hurt or kill any living creature needlessly, but will strive to save and protect all harmless life. "(p. 15)


 


Which is certainly a good habit to get into.  Later on in the chapter discussing moral issues and chivalry the manual offers this definition of a scout’s kindness:


 


The habit of thinking well of others and doing good to them.  (p. 247)


 


Let’s go to the Christian’s “manual” for some greater insight.  Jesus said,


 


“But love your enemies, and do good, and lend, expecting nothing in return; and your reward will be great, and you will be sons of the Most High; for He Himself is kind to ungrateful and evil men.”  Luke 6.35


 


I’d like to make a few observations about this Scripture,


1.       A kind-hearted Christian loves those who will not return their love.


2.      Our acts of kindness should be done without any expectation of reciprocity.


3.      God will GREATLY reward acts of kindness done in this spirit.


4.      The entire world will know that you belong to God when you do acts of kindness in this spirit.


5.      Jesus Christ is the ultimate example of being kind-imitate Him and you can’t go wrong.


Paul wrote,


‘Be kind to one another, tender-hearted, forgiving each other, just as God in Christ has also forgiven you.”  Ephesians 4.32


            This passage is directed toward the community of Christians or more plainly-the church. 


 


Take a close look here.  We are to,


1.       Be kind to one another.


2.      Tender-hearted.


3.      Forgiving each other, in the same manner as Christ had forgiven us.  That means there should not be a limit to how many or what kinds of offenses we forgive among our brothers and sisters.  I shudder to think of what my life would be like if Jesus drew some kind of a line and said, “I’ll not forgive you of that or I’ll not forgive you anymore.”  That would be terrible-yet I see Christians do this to each other all the time. 


Paul wrote elsewhere that one of the characteristics of Christian love is kindness;


 


“Love is patient, love is kind…”  I Corinthians 13. 4a. 


 


The idea of kindness conjured images of helping others.  It leads us to think of compassion shown by serving other’s needs.  Kindness would include doing no harm to people or animals.  Kindness means overlooking others faults and shortcomings.  Kindness means being sympathetic to the suffering of others and doing what we can to alleviate it.   


            I have been fortunate to be the recipient of a LOT of kindness, too many times to even remember.  One example of so many is Tuesday lunches.  That’s on my mind because I just got back to work from lunch.  Just about every Tuesday for the last five years Wayne, Willard, John or Charlie O has bought my lunch.  I have only paid one time in five years.  That’s over 200 lunches!  It’s a small kindness that has really added up.  Those guys are a real blessing to me-not so much for the lunches, though that is greatly appreciated, but for the friendship and fellowship.  Of course, I could go on.  Right now, Ron is up on the roof fixing the swamp cooler so we all won’t roast in our own juices Sunday-it goes on and on.  Kindness is in vogue here at BRBC!  What are some of the kindnesses you have received?  Is there any one instance that really stands out in your mind?  Share it with us. 


 


            Lord, we have all received many kindnesses over the years and for them we are truly grateful.  We especially than You, Lord, for Your great and wonderful kindnesses given to us each day-most of all Your saving grace.  Amen


2009-05-19 20:03:42 GMT
Comments (4 total)
Author:Anonymous
It only took a minute for me to think of several, but I will try to be brief. Mom donated all of my plane cost for our mission trip to Salmo last year. Billy gave me $100 for spending while I was there. Tom gave up fly fishing in a Canadian river to cart all of us around. Gary has taken the responsibility of the kitchen for our large outreach events, something that stressed me out and made my family cringe. Kay has been a Oak tree, I've rested in her shade, and leaned on her for prayer and comfort through many times in my life.

Thank you sweet Lord for providing the ultimate kindness. Please fill me Holy Spirit with your fruit, that I may be known by it.
--tami
2009-05-21 20:50:38 GMT
Author:Anonymous
It's funny how we (well, me at least) tend take these little, and some not so little, acts of kindness for granted. The acts I would like to share may not be as brief as Tami's, but I will share none the less. The first is that ever since I began teaching Tom and Cindy have given me a gift each christmas, making sure I have at least one new tee shirt each year. Another recent one was when I realized that the weld holding the axle to the trailer broke Clyde fixed them without me asking him to. The one that stands out the most in my mind though occured a few years back while elk hunting in the mount taylor area. I had gotten a flat tire in the morning (too busy looking for elk and not watching the road) and thought OK, I have a spare. We continued to hunt and I went down a muddy road, slid into a rock and got another flat. Not good, no more spares. I walked back up the road where we saw some campers and I got there just as the last guy was hooking up his trailer to leave. He was kind enough to drive me all over that mountain until we found a couple of other hunters who happened to have an extra spare (4 to be exact). They followed us back to the truck, changed my tire (the first guy happened to have a floor jack), left us with a spare tire in case I happened to get another flat on the way out. They left us their address in Grants so we could drop the tires when we were done with them and they left to continue hunting.
I thank the Lord for this kindness and pray that I can show His kindness to those He puts in my path.
2009-05-23 05:27:20 GMT
Author:Anonymous
People really are so kind that I have been finding it difficult to decide which kindnesses to share. I could write a never ending list if I was to list my parents kindness to me, they make the boy scouts proud I'm sure. A couple of years ago we were putting a new roof on the house and it was touching to see all the friends and family, including my parents, who came out to help us. Many years ago I was rescued by Ira Shelton after getting a flat tire at the post office and another one at the nursing home where his parents were living. And I am often touched by Cindy's kindness when she sees things that she knows someone would like and gets it for them just because she knows they would enjoy it. Tami also brings little gifts for our Sunday School class that make us smile. And the final kindness I'll share that meant so much to me, is the gift of our church family coming to the hospital to sit with us while Morgan was in surgery.
I hope I offer kindness to others as readily as I know it is so frequently shown to me
--Kay
2009-05-24 04:31:59 GMT
Author:Anonymous
People really are so kind that I have been finding it difficult to decide which kindnesses to share. I could write a never ending list if I was to list my parents kindness to me, they make the boy scouts proud I'm sure. A couple of years ago we were putting a new roof on the house and it was touching to see all the friends and family, including my parents, who came out to help us. Many years ago I was rescued by Ira Shelton after getting a flat tire at the post office and another one at the nursing home where his parents were living. And I am often touched by Cindy's kindness when she sees things that she knows someone would like and gets it for them just because she knows they would enjoy it. Tami also brings little gifts for our Sunday School class that make us smile. And the final kindness I'll share that meant so much to me, is the gift of our church family coming to the hospital to sit with us while Morgan was in surgery.
I hope I offer kindness to others as readily as I know it is so frequently shown to me
--Kay
2009-05-24 04:32:25 GMT